Not only is Balint work mainly internal, and not that visible in terms of action-oriented, specific behaviors, the work is done by everyone in the room. The group members who are not presenting, and may feel only that they are struggling to understand why the presenter is having some kind of difficulty with this patient - can often feel a shared bond with the presenter. Over time and with practice, you can become better at figuring out the different ways to look at the presenter's situation. You can have your own, personal small revelations. Nobody needs to know what you realize - you can keep it to yourself. You can have your own personal shift in perspective.
~ Alec Chessman